How To Pick a Lover
For Women Who Want to Win at Love
by Wesley L. Ford
The great difference between people in this world is not between the rich and poor or between good and evil. The big difference between people are the ones who have pleasure in love and those who haven’t.
– Richard Brooks, Sweet Bird of Youth
In 1913, H.M. Swanwick speculated in The Future of the Woman’s Movement that women of the future would have men only on honorable terms – “love and liberty and mutual service” – or would go without. Nearly a hundred years have now passed and the future has arrived, but many women are still settling for less than love, liberty and mutual service. Many women, but not all of them
During the latter part of the twentieth century, the Western world experienced a social and sexual revolution of great consequence. And women today are now free to think about romantic relationships from a new perspective.
A woman can opt for celibacy if she wants, but she can also opt to have a lover for purely sexual reasons. That is a revolutionary idea. That is an idea long overdue. That is an idea whose time has come.
If you think sex is not all that wonderful, then you’re not doing it with the right man.